High school senior has time- management issues
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DEAR HARRIETTE: I’m going into my senior year of high school, and I’m scared about all the stuff on my plate. On top of college applications, I’m enrolled in five A.P. courses, doing two internships and am an offi- cer of four clubs. It’s a lot. In years past, I’ve been really bad about procrastinating and getting my work done in an efficient manner. What are your best tips for organ- izing my schedule and time? — Time Management Tips
DEAR TIME MANAGEMENT TIPS: Wow, you have truly overloaded your schedule. If you must keep all of these high-priority duties, you will need to create a detailed schedule and prom- ise yourself you will follow it. I believe in mapping out a weekly and daily schedule. In this way, you can look at the longer view and get a sense of the rhythm of the work that needs to be com- pleted over the course of seven days, along with a daily check-in that allows you to keep track of immedi- ate deadlines.
You can create this sched- ule wherever you have a cal- endar. I have two versions of my calendar. On my smart- phone, I input my appointments and deadlines. You can also include classes with times and room numbers or zoom addresses, as applicable.
I also have a daily to-do list that is itemized by project. Under each heading, I list all of the pertinent duties and functions and check them off as they are com- pleted. To ensure that every- thing is accounted for, I break down the tasks into manageable steps. No big project lives as one to-do item. Instead, the individual tasks that I determine will help me reach the goal are itemized and then checked off. This daily list must also include mental and physical health items, such as eating, exercising, drinking water and visiting with friends and family. All of it is important. If you write it all down, you will get it all done. The trick is to make a habit of keeping your list.
DEAR HARRIETTE: I believe everybody can benefit from therapy, no matter their circumstances. My parents, however, share a different view. Lately, my mental health has been taking a toll on my quality of life, and I think it would benefit me to talk through my issues. I want professional advice and a safe space that fosters open dialogue. How do I explain to my parents that I really want to go to therapy? — Wanting Therapy
DEAR WANTING THERAPY: Request an appointment with your physician. Your parents will agree to that. During your private session with the doctor, describe your situation, how you are feeling, what you are con- cerned about and your clear desire to see a therapist. Ask your doctor for a referral to a therapist. Perhaps this can be coordinated just between you and the doctor. If your parents must be involved, ask your doctor to speak to your parents directly to rein- force the value of getting the support that you need. If that doesn’t work, go through your school. There should be mental health professionals available who can help you through this period.
Harriette Cole is a lifestylist and founder of DREAMLEAPERS, an initiative to help people access and acti- vate their dreams. You can send questions to askharriette@harriettecole.com or c/o Andrews McMeel Syndication, 1130 Walnut St., Kansas City, MO 64106